“You really shouldn’t wear that mini-skirt. No one wants to look at your fat thighs!”
“You can’t wear that, you’ll look like you’re trying too hard!”
“Never go swimming. No one wants to look at a whale!”
Do you know exactly what FAT PEOPLE shouldn’t do?
- Feel guilty for having fun, looking sexy, or doing whatever they want to do.
- Feel ashamed of their body while enjoying themselves doing anything they want to do.
- Listen to assholes who can’t figure out how to love themselves, so they’d rather make others feel ashamed, so they don’t feel so alone.
The reality is that we – each and every human being on this damned planet – have the right to do whatever we wish, as long as it is done with the consent of any others involved.
And no, that doesn’t mean we have to have the consent of everyone in the world to do yoga, go to a gym, wear whatever clothing we want, or any other shallow shit someone else wants to bitch about. It isn’t involving them if you want to wear a mini-skirt, go swimming, wear sexy clothing or anything else like that. If they don’t want to see it? Guess what? They can LOOK SOMEWHERE ELSE!
I’m going to continue to wear clothing I feel sexy in, no matter what other people think. It doesn’t matter if someone thinks I am too old, too fat or too whatever the bitch of their choice is. I’m going to continue to do things I want to do – like swimming, dancing, walking or anything else – regardless of whether someone else wants to be offended by it. I’m going to continue to enjoy sex, even if someone thinks I don’t have the right to a healthy sex life.
I will not compromise myself for anyone ever again.